Applications of Mood Change NLP Techniques
In the previous session we have seen
one of the NLP techniques to change mood. However many readers raised a
question whether mood change is so important or not. Mood change should
be considered seriously because negative moods are unresourceful and unhealthy
states for everybody. To be in an unresourceful state for long period leads
to depression. Being in angry mood for long time causes hypertension, stomach
problems etc. The habit of being worried and tensed about future events results
into anxiety disorder.
Off moods create relationship
problems. Husband wife tug of war begins with off mood! In off mood persons
behave differently. Senses do not work accurately because of unwanted filters
from the negative internal representations. Hence you feel no taste even for a nice
coffee! Negative moods affect personal effectiveness and therefore affect
professional and business performances. Men sometimes try to recreate the moods
using alcohol which worsen the situation. Negative mood even affects
immunity of our body. These are a few examples of the causes of negative
moods. NLP technique is very useful to
change your negative moods as well as to help others to change their moods.
Generally it is the human nature to
hide personal problems from others and become a victim of stress, tension,
anxiety etc. If the problem remains for a long period a state of depression
will be created. However no one is always depressed. One of the reasons for
people get depressed is the lack of sharing personal problems. When a person is
unable to find choices and solutions for his personal problems he should seek
help from others. If they get a help on right time they can definitely stay safe
from worse state. What kind of person commits suicide, persons who doesn’t have
a good friend or an honest person to share their emotional issues and to help them
to find other choices! NLP says there are always choices. Problem is the
lack of self motivation to find choices and solutions.
Applications
of mood change techniques:
(1) You
can use this technique to change your own negative moods to positive for the betterment
of your professional life, family life and social life. It will help you to be
in a resourceful state so that you can utilize maximum opportunities and best
choices in life.
(2) You
can use this technique to help your children in studies. Negative moods are one
of the major problems that pull children down from the state of successfulness.
Thus their overall performance will be poor.
(3) You
can also help your friends and colleagues who are the victims of negative
emotions and moods so that they find more choices and resources.
(4) NLP
technique will enhance the profession of Counsellers since the result is very
fast and long lasting.
(5) Socially
motivated teachers can change their students and help them in obtaining better
results.
Another question is whether one’s family
members will do what he suggests. It is not necessary to intervene as a counsellor
therapist in their life. Objective of NLP intervention is nothing but to change
internal representation which creates the negative mood. People who feel a
particular mood have their brains filled with very clear, bright, loud,
close and heavy images (submodalities) of the experiences producing that
particular mood. The mood or state may be good or bad for that person.
Bad mood indicates that images to
create good mood is lying dull, soft, far and light. The solution is to change the submodalities
of image that can create good mood to very clear, bright, loud, close and heavy
and that of the unwanted image in the other way around. The submodality change
exercise as mentioned above is an NLP therapy which will be discussed in detail
in another session. A therapist or trained counsellor applies NLP technique
systematically on his client however it is not easy for persons to act as a
therapist or counsellor in home or office to change their relatives.
How to change a person who is our
beloved one from our family or friends circle? First of all you should maintain
intense rapport with them so that they will open their mind fully
towards you. Accept their internal world. Listen to them. Take care of them.
Love them. Being the beloved one you have to recall wonderful moments of
your life in which they are involved. Share funny moments with them. Tell about events, persons and life
activities that they are very much interested. Note that changing a person
is a divine service and changing your beloveds is not a service but your
responsibility.
Even a telephone call from one of your
best friend can change your mood. Here your friend unknowingly changing the submodalities
of your internal representation. Telephone calls are villains too! A telephone call
can make you mood-off.
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